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Originally Posted by TheMainGirl
Thanks a lot for your advice,
Sounds good but to tell the truth I did talk to him way before i put a rule
About the drinking and that’s when he wasn’t really caring what I would think.
I know that putting a rule sounds more of a mom rule then a girlfriend’s way of asking
For a change…maybe it’s the idea of why I know his reason of drinking so much that makes me hate the way he drinks…I do try to have fun with him all the time I ask him to work out with me and to go out dancing or something but to him is not fun…. Its him and beer or no fun at all…. As for me I cant drink I have a kidney infection that stops me from a lot of “his so called fun” but in reality drinking isn’t me anymore and the main reason for me having a kidney infection is the alchol… so I don’t know I guess he really dose need help from a doctor………
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Well as you know what the reason is for him drinking, then it's fair to say that he has to get over that hurdle, what ever that hurdle is.
Encourage him to seek advice but don't tell him, he's more than likely to rebel and not do it and it may take some time for him to want to do it.
That's all you can do really, but i think it's important if you love him to try to encourage him, tell him you love him and want him to be happy, it has to be all about him i think at this stage but to also say that it hurts you to see him this way, so he sees that love and support as apposed to don't drink, here's when you can.
Good luck..