In my case at first when he and I started only chatting as friends, I did not know he was married. I later found he was but we were only friends so I thought nothing of it, I even knew he was seeing someone else at the time but we were just friends. Then he came here to meet me face to face with his brother-in-law to go to the races. Things went from there. That was the ONLY time I had been involved with a married man. I was one of those people who always said I would never do that to another woman, and sadly I did. I would have died had my ex-husband cheated on me.

He was cunninng with his words I belived all that he said. And I do know I will never put myself in that sort of situation again. I want a man who is mine and mine only and that I am his one and only.

It's amazing how much I have learned from people on this site since I joined. How many similar situations there are. I am so glad I found this forum, this has been so helpful for me.

CW...thats right darlin go get another one. And now you and I have to work on that smoking thing . LOL