In my opinion you are living with an alcoholic...He does not admit it but I believe he is...Any person that cannot leave it alone and needs a couple drinks every day is pretty borderline. He has far exceeded this...His help is called AA....This is a horrible word for a drinker to hear. They will lie and do just about anything not to admit it....For it means that they must stop this escape into this make believe world that they love....

Until he faces the problem that he has, and looks at himself in the mirror, he will not change...Right now he likes his reflection....But the big question here will be, do you?

Take care, Caroline