Thanks Caroline for your advice!

About the AA you know i have told him that he has that problem but like you said he never accepts his reality and his famous responds is "I'm young and I’m going to live it like i like it"

I get really up set when he says that but i guess that’s the way an alcoholic thinks.... i do support him a lot in other things but that i will never understand i mean he doesn’t drink everyday like it used to be, ever since i put that rule about him drinking.. it when down to Thursdays, Fridays and Saturdays but still i dont like it i hate the idea of staying up so late and him drinking and listening to his music all loud i just dont understand why he thinks that’s such a great lifestyle...

i did a lot of stuff before him and ever since I’ve been with him I’ve decided to become a different girl due to him because his a great guy aside of his AA but at the same time he doesn’t let me have friends (guys) like I used to but you know I don’t complain about it I was ready for a different lifestyle and well with him I’ve been able to calm down a whole lot……… well thanks a lot for your good advice!