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Originally Posted by CHANDLERS WISH
Hey Just4me.
You did say goodbye, by not contacting him.. I haven't heard of any roses turning up on your doorstep since. That's because he is comensating one lose by i am sure, partying away with others and his wife. Take sex out of it, the laughter etc was because you got on well, think you get on well with a few here and we don't know you, must be that your a likable person who is now liking herself as well.
There is going to be horrid days and you may also have hoped he'd contact you just so you still felt that "special" feeling, but deep down of course said please don't i need to get through this.
See that all above therefore as, he definately wasn't worth it none of that happened and smile......
Know that he will continue cheating and you will find someone who is totally yours that you wouldn't have had the chance to had you stayed, because your heart would not have been free...
Jump up and down right now, on a spot and say, "yeah i am, i am free", then look yourself in the mirror and tell yourself how beautiful you are inside and out.... Because you are.
Take care, the day doesn't last forever......... ready for day 13!!!!
CW
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Thank you Chandler. Your right he will continue to do what he does. And yes he and I got along well. I will find another person, an even better person that I will get along well with also, even more so I hope.
Your right I have at times wished he would contact me, but then in the same thought think oh God please don't, I won't be able to handle it. Amazing how you know my thought so well. Because if he keeps on I will miss out on healing and finding that special person in my life.
The day got better after I made my morning post. And tonight I went for dinner with my son and my ex-husband ( i know geesh an ex who is my best friend LOL)
and we had a great time. My son ALWAYS makes feel better and I will be so glad when he comes home on Sunday night.
Day 13 soon
and I'll make it even better. I have tons of work to do at home so that will keep my mind occupied. I think at work sometimes I have to much down-time and it makes it alittle harder, but that to shall pass.
As my friend says...THIS TO SHALL PASS!!