thank you so much. your reply means a lot. i am trying to take one day at the time and not thing about him. i miss him but i know he is not the best for me. I have decided to dont date for a little while until i feel better. I guess the next guy in me life does not need the drama and i need to move on first.
during the day, when i think about this i go back and forth between feeling sad, angry, guilty, empty but also thankful becaue it did not get worst and also because i showed confidence by breaking up with him. i am doing my best by staying busy but it is so hard when i dont have many friends who want to hang out.
once again thank you, take care.
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Originally Posted by CHANDLERS WISH
That's a very sad story anilu and i feel for you.
I can only say that there is no necessity to put someone down and hurt them in the way in which he chose to do.
Sometimes, it is just as nice to say i can't get over my ex, as a reason, if you need a reason or can't continue with a relationship, or simply, i just think it's better left.
It sounds that he may be still hurting and won't allow anyone into his life, not you specifically but anyone.
My ex-husband's first wife cheated on him and i believe that created a huge sexual rift in our marriage on trust and giving love.
I would not take to heart what he has said to you i am sure that it was a situation not something you will experience in the future so please do not allow those comments to cloud your mind into believing that in the next relationship you enter into.
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