I did not call and leave him a text message. I called his job and left my name and number for him to call me back. Right before he left the job where we worked together, he talked about us getting together. He actually invited himself to my home. We spent alot of time talking on the job--during breaks,etc. Also, my name is not common. In all my life, I have met fewer than five people with the same name. Also, we knew each other at work for almost a year. He may have worked there longer but that is how long I knew him.