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Originally Posted by Little
Abstinence?
Sounds fishy that he doesn't let you have guy friends ... do you have a history of cheating on your boyfriends? I do, but that doesn't stop my boyfriend from trusting me, and I've never betrayed that trust.
If I can change, so can you ... you shouldn't have to give up (real) friends (those fake guys who just want in your pants don't count, of course.)
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I read what you read there Little. "Maybe it's because i know why he drinks" and after that, that she had made mistakes before him, suggesting that he knew of those mistakes hense taking the male friends out of the equation.
But yes, if this is what she is saying, then he has to learn to trust her that she wants him as a partner and not allow those negative thoughts to enter his mind, as they are past. And, it appears i i read this correctly that wants him to feel that she is his and his alone, hense has accepted those terms.
Maybe time heals all wounds......
And maybe if she keeps showing her love he will realise it in it's totality and things will slowly change.