I sent my man this message after an arguement we had: All I can do is tell you that I'm sorry and ask you to give it another chance. I can't make you all I can do is tell you. All I have ever tried to do is be good to you b/c I care. I am wondering where I stand with you. I'm asking you to please let me know either way if it's over with us. I'm wondering what's up and I would hope and believe that you would tell me. You told me last Wednesday that you would try to give me another chance. I asked you about if it didn't happen again and you said great but if it did you were gone. I understand that. So I was thinking/hoping that we were gonna try to get past this, but since I have tried to call you several times and you haven't answered my calls, I don't really know what to think. I want you to do what it is you want to do. If continuing to see me is what you want or don't want please let me know. I will not push you b/c neither of us are ready for anything but dating. I know I have said this before but given the chance honey I will show you and I won't let you down EVER again. I am a good person and would not do anything in the world to hurt you only to help. Please let's move on and I promise I will not be pushy. I promise I will not let you down ever again. But if you don't want to I understand and will move forward with my life. Please let me know.
AND HIS RESPONSE WAS:
I just need some space to figure things out . I think that you need to do the same . Life is to short and I'm done arguing with everyone . You do whatever makes you happy . You are a good person , but I'm not sure that
I'm the one for you . You shouldn't have to change who you are, to please me . Maybe later , when I figure things out .......We can talk .
YOUR HONEST ADVICE PLEASE.