Hello everybody,
I am new to this whole forum thing but I really need help at this point of my life. I hope to make this as short as possible. This is my situation:

I have been with my boyfriend for close to 8 yrs. Previously, I caught him visiting a coworker that lives about an hour away from where he lives. I don't know if they really had something going on or what but I asked myself why was he going to see her? Anyway, since I was no sure of anything I decided to give him another chance. I told him that if I ever caught him with somebody else it was totally over.

Recently, I saw a number on his phone that I didn't recognize. There was an incoming and outgoing call at about 2:30am for about a min and a half each. I didn't say anything to him yet until I had a chance to call this number back without him knowing. When I called it was a girl but I didnt tell/ask her anything. I just wanted to make sure it was a girl. Later on that day, I asked him who had he been talking to around that time. He said nobody and I asked if he was sure. He said yes. I asked him to give me his phone and told him I was going to call it back. He said it was okay. The girl answered and I asked her what was going on with him, she said they were only coworkers and that she had a boyfriend. She even asked me if I wanted to talk to him and I said yes. She ended up hanging up. I think she had no boyfriend, she just said that. Should I take that call as a "meet me here thing" and he was cheating on me???

For reference: He usually gets out of work at 11:00 pm and gets home at about 12:30 am but I am not sure at what time he got home that day.

PLEASE I NEED DESPIRATE HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Should I let him go??????


The worst thing is that about a couple of weeks ago i had a tube pregnancy from him and lost the baby. When I was at the hospital he stayed with me and got a text message at about midnight. Even after begging to let me see the message he erased it and never showed it to me.

Sorry for writing this long book.