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Originally Posted by Just1gal
Hi All,
I am looking for some input here.Is it possible for a guy to have sex with you and not get emotionally attached.I do not want to be in a relationship and just want sex.My "friend with benefits" guy is awesome in that dept!When we started I made it very clear that I did not want any emotional attachments.He was fine with it and said is looking for the same.
He calls,emails or texts me everyday.We work together so we do meet for coffees etc.We are always sexually charged and looking to be together as often as possible.I just feel he is falling for me and don't know what to do about it.
I have reiterated my position on what our "deal" was and he assures me he is not becoming attached.He even says it quite often that it is just sex and he could walk away from me at anytime.I'm not sure if he is just saying that or what.I then find myself questioning if what my gut is telling me is right. I really don't want to stop the sex because it is soo good but I don't want it to become complicated or hurt him either.
Anyways any thoughts or personal experiences shared would be appreciated and would luv to hear from any guys.
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I don't think it is wrong to have a sexual partner only, however, "our deal was?". There is no guarantees in life. I usually follow gut intuition as a female, but if sex is soooo good and you talk every day, then is it only the sex that you like? Or is he an okay guy that if you were ready you would hook up with.
It's just to me, if it's sex only then there shouldn't be anything else, if that's all you want. Leave it as sex only, rid of the calls, emails and coffee because if he does like you well you've played a part in that role very much so.
CW