again thanks for input

I think I will continue with this "friend" for now as it just feels right for me at this point.I am having a really great time with him and don't want to stop.I also am well aware that as time goes by things and feeling can change,who knows I may start to feel for him.I know I am somewhat closed off to "real" relationships but never have written them off for good.

...and you are right on CW,I do not want to be in a heavy commitment right now and deal with the daily running of it.I have 2 kids(now 18 and 22) from my husband and all my energy went into them and their well being after their father died.It is like my youngest turned 18 and I was like..its time for me..not that I won't always be mom of course I will.

I just want to have things light and fun right now.He does make me laugh and we do think a lot alike now that I think of it.I have no problem telling him what I'm thinking or needing.I will take it day by day and see where and how it goes.