I've been happily married for 10 years and from day 1 my husband has disliked my brother's wife. My brother and his wife have been married for about 5 years. My brother and his wife had a rocky start to their marriage but all seems well now. My husband doesn't trust her, says she is a liar etc. etc. I try to have a relationship with her without him, but it just doesn't work because I'm close to my husband and want her to come to the house and if I want us all to get together for dinner, he loses it. Slams doors, says that I'm sneaking to plan these things etc, etc. Then he stops talking to me for hours and it's just horrible. I then have to lie to rearrange plans that I have made with my brother and sis-in-law. It's crazy. I've never seen anybody get so angry, it's like he is a different person. I don't know what to think anymore. It use to make me angry now it makes me sad that I can't bring our family closer and he won't at least accept her a little. Also, he has no proof about her being a liar or not being able to trust her. He just says its a feeling.

I really need help with trying to figure this out. Can anyone help? Thanks in advance.