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RcoreyusI generally think it is a bad idea to spy on / question your SO. I know that by being trusting, you may be decieved, but by not trusting you are loosing one of the great advantages of a relationship.
I don't know if anything is going on in this case. If you look long enough though, you will find something, whether it is there or not .
(I'm aware that I am very much the minority opinion here).
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I guess i can only agree with rcoreyus, it will eat at you.
And, if you are willing to give it a chance as you have no proof either way, and not look for that proof then see where it goes..
I also agree with Caroline regarding protection but you have answered that.
Yes, it appears that he lied at the beginning i don't deny that. But as you say you are a "gulable person", you therefore are also a suspiscious person and there is no reason to not believe that he found it easier to therefore let it all alone. Until, it reached a head where he had to.
I just don't see a co-worker getting involved in conversations unless there is envolvement or wanting of.
So, yes Caroline, that i where i saw her, as she made the initial call at 2.30am, she made the initial call at 3am, or text message and she supposidly stated to him that she continued to try and call but was hung up on... it was that sentence the last one that got me, as why would he bring a lie like that into a story to protect himself? Surely that would make matters worse, saying that she tried on going and your girl is lying when your trying to make up, unless he's ******.
But then, maybe that's the case....
CW