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Originally Posted by mvaldez
Update: After too many ignored calls and messages, on Sunday I had no choice but to talk to him. He decided to go to my house knowing that he had a big chance of me not wanting to see him. My mom convinced me of talking to him.
When we talked, he swore for his grandma that he didn't cheat on me. His grandma is sacred for him, so that kind of made me believe him. I don't know how but we just ended up getting together. I say I don't know how because I don't believe his story. He was giving me eye contact and talking to me very serious but I just don't believe him.
He told me that the woman that he talked to at 2:30 am on Friday was about a work related meeting that they were going to have on Monday. She called him to ask him at what time was the meeting going to be and since the phone call got cut he had to call her back. That is how he explained to me the incoming and outgoing call, which I don't believe.
Another thing that makes the whole situation kind of fishy is that the woman told him that she called me many, many times to clear things up. She told him that I would say that it was the wrong number and hang up on her. He said that he made sure that she was calling the right number and that he was sure she had called. Weird thing is that I had no missed calls and I have not talked to her since what happened, I only got one message from her a week after the incident. Why would a serious older woman lie to him about that????
He also just told me that he has to work on Saturday. He has not worked on a Saturday for the longest time. I think he is lying and has to make it up to the "woman" for texting me and making me believe that there is nothing going on between them.
I totally can't believe a word he says. PLEEEEEESE HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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I know how you feel, I don't think I could believe him either. The one thing that you said he said was that he swore on his grandma because his grandmother...well I'm not sure if you've read any of my threads of my situation but the man I was with swore to me on his own kids life everytime he was trying to convince me he wasn't lying. His own kids, now that should be sacred to him,,,and he was lying everytime, thats scarey.
Anyway, please don't think I am saying he isn't telling you the truth but I wanted you to know I can understand why you are doubting him so much. It all sounds fishy to me from both her and him. I would take all the time you need to figuer it out for yourself. You have the control to do what you want and need to do with your life and your relationship with him. Just take time for you to think.
I hope everything works out for you, whatever you may decide. Be careful with your feelings and your heart. Follow your instinct. A women's intuition is usually dead on.
Take care
