Here is a short history. I had hip surgery on Monday and it has left me lethargic, in pain, and unable to walk well (with crutches). My husband had to take some time off of work (9 days) to help take care of me and our 3 small children (5, and 20 month old twins). Today is 5 days past surgery and I am still nauseous, in pain, and unable to walk well even with the cructches. Well, first thing I think he did wrong was he left to go do something (hobby related, but he makes money) for 6 hours this morning by myself with the kids. (we have no family in the area). Then he calls me a little while ago on his way home and asks if I will go down on him tonight. I said, "I don't know, let me see how I feel". Well, he gets mad and and says, "fine, I will just take care of business my own way". ?!?!?! The problem is, he really is mad that I am not so enthusistic to go down on him! He will have an attitude the rest of the day, and probably tomorrow too. That is just how he is.

Can someone help me understand this kind of behavior? My gosh, I just had hip surgery 5 days ago! I am already a little upset with him for leaving me alone so soon. He seems to be so selfish with this whole situation.....