Well thanks for everyones advice. I am feeling a little better about it now. CW, no he does not want to wait until marriage to lose his virginity..I am not exactly sure why he has'nt allready, and I guess thats not my buisness right?! Richard S, you gave great advice that I am definetly taken into consideration, and I know how it is when men play those awful games, so I am def not one of those girls who do that.