04-13-2008, 01:38 PM
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Join Date: Apr 2008
Location: CA
Posts: 25
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just4me: Thanks for sharing that with me. I guess a guy will swear on whatever is necessary to get their way. I have been reading your threads but don't know what to tell you. Hopefully you are able to stay away from that manipulative man.
Last night my bf and me had another big argument that finished with everything. Once again I looked through his cell phone. He didn't have any received text messages while he had sent 2 text messages to "alex1". I was wondering why had he erased the messages that he received from "alex1" while forgetting to erase the ones that he sent to him, one at 11:44 pm and the other one at 11:56pm. The first message that he sent said "what happened". The second message said "No tell me ok". Everything sounded fishy to me and I wanted to find out the truth.
For reference: he had previously told me that alex is his coworker that had been off of work for about a month bc his wife had a baby and he was taking care of her. He also told me that alex's sister in law lives with him and his wife. Alex's sister in law works at the same place that my bf does but in a different shift. She works from 5:40 am to 2:40 pm.
After I saw the text messages I called "alex1" to make sure it was not another girl. When I called a girl answered the phone. Once again, a girl!!! I asked for alex and the only thing the girl said was "I can't talk, I am at work" and hung up. I asked my bf about who was really "alex1" on his phone. He told me it was his coworker. Taken the small history of Alex, nothing makes sense of what my bf told me.
Why would a girl answer his cell phone. My bf said it could have been his wife or sister in law. None of that makes sense. His wife just had a baby, she doesn’t work. His sister in law works a different shift, from 5:40 am to 2:40 pm. I just called yesterday at 10:40 pm so it couldn’t have been his sister in law that took his phone to work because she works during the day.
What should I think about all of this????????? Could I just be trying to find thing just bc I don’t trust him anymore????
I asked myself, why alex had his cell phone the night before (when he text my bf) and why a day later a girl has Alex's cell phone? It for sure was not his wife or sister in law....I mean who else would be using his cell phone???? Besides, nowadays, who lends their cell phone to anybody????
Please Help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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