Thanks for giving me strength everyone and for helping me realize I am not the crazy one! Had I not posted here, I probably would have gave in just so I didn't have to deal with his attitude. But I stuck to my guns and didn't give in. It is funny b/c sex is the only way he is selfish at all! If he doesn't get sex, he gets very annoyed. He calls it SRA... Semen Retention Attitude. Hopefully he can't wait a while longer... until I am up for it. If not, I guess he will have to work his own problems out.