life your life
There is absolutely no reason to ever bring your life
to a crashing halt to walk behind him to see if he's
cheating, if he's doing this...if he's doing that...as
if you have no life.
I joined myspace, i didn't tell the truth about my
age, my relationships, anything.
Why?
I joined to make networking easier...and those who
know me know the nick I'm using, everyone else can
run down my avatar...(puppy called Askance)
Hence what you found on myspace is neither here nor
there...
the fact that you caught him once...well...that's the
way it is, isn't it? Once a ****, always a ****.
I have yet to meet a woman who has forgiven her
husband for adultery.
I can list dozens who have remained with the man,
kept the facade of marriage going...but spent a
little time alone with the wife and mention hubby,
and it's between X rating and war games.
Some women consider that they have a 'blank cheque',
since he cheated, she sees no reason to rush home
or turn down that business trip, or buy the food he
likes, or do anything to please him.
In fact, there was an article called; "The Liberation
of Adultery".
The fact is, you have a life. Live your life.
If you are not a private detective, spending your
life 'investigating' him is kind of pointless.
Either end the marriage, or reconstitute it in such
a form that you take care of yourself, and cease
to make him the centre of your life.
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