Don t be afraid of losing your daughter... won t happen so long as you continue to stay calm and always let her know you will be there for her... perhaps you should step back just a little.. l have 5 children... M 26...F 24...M19..F14..F11... ouchy it can be such a heart renching task.being a mum..as with dads.. be aware of what is going on in her life..however it is time to step back a little... at home slip in a quick .. love ya...often...she will come around and give you that special cuddle when you least expect it... kids these days tend to grow up so quickly.. it just isn t kool to be mums good friend at this time in her life....plus she s hit the notion... lm not a baby mum.. gees... l tend to get that flung at me often by my 11 yr old.. and alas l was just trying to help her.. but hey thats kool... keep up the great job you are already doing... just calm down a tad.. talk it over with hubby... lol thats if he s any help in that department.. no offence to the dads out there... we females... mums do tend to over react at times but hey its cause we care.. best o luck to you