I don't think I can reallly give advice on this....

The old saying don't go to sleep mad at each other, I've done that before and it's generally pretty uncomfortable and seeds resentment. I dunno, unless you both like fighting I guess my point of view is why bother? A relationship shouldn't be about warring, when I care for someone I make an effort not to be nasty to them, and I expect that same effort from them, otherwise to with it, get out of my life, I don't need another mother... That sort of thing.