funnily enough, my first was his daddy's son. No one else would do.
It was his father's fault for always carrying him around, as if they
were joined at the hip. I warned my husband not to do it. Leave
the child, stop making the child so dependent on him, but he
never listened.

I am sure my first son is the way he is...(screwed up) due to
his father's treatment.

There is going to come a time in your life when you can't
be pandering to the child. You might work, you might be
somewhere else, the child might be in school...
this dependency on one person is destructive, and anyway
you can end it...do it now.