Fallen1,

What you did, was stand up for your beliefts and you stood up to everyone and as such, you had to suffer pain along the way.

I hate as well "Hollywood Movies" they never tell reality and make things look so great that if we can relate at all to that movie with our lives then it makes us sad and think.

Why do people cut people down? Why do children make silly comments?
Because they are hurtful people and children no no better, just what they heard from their parents.

I would bet, $1000 Aus, and give it to you today, that if you went to a reunion and spoke openly to those kids at school, a lot would be telling of their kids in gaol, or left home, or they in fact had an abortion, the bond you developed with your son could very well also be, not just your nature and strength that you obviously had to get through all of that, but because you "faught for him" before he was even born...


That love is something a lot of parents would just dream of, a "friend" whom is my mate, yet he is my son.

What comes around goes around. Look at what you have, and you can collect that $1000 if you ever make that move to go to that re-union and take your son, on one arm and your man on the other, mmm that's a thought.

I can relate to what i just said to you, because i was the "ugly duckling type", that looked after nurds, teachers liked, but rebelious, and when i left school and started going out to night clubs at 17, i saw lots of those girls from school and all of a sudden they wanted to be my best friend, because i became somehow a little swan and had the best looking and most popular guy and they well grovelled lots.. It was so funny to watch....

So your class people seeing this relationship you have, would envy you to death.....

I would not be sad at all of that people are cruel but reality is "what comes around goes around", and the strong not only survive but always end up the winners......



Like you.

CW