Well the above poster does make sense....

Yes, "cheating is cheating and wrong", i don't disagree. But my advice is usually simular, if he is plain lying, or skirting around the issues, and this is established or way to suspicious then no point staying because it will happen over and over and over gain, he is born to do it, so to speak.

The hardest call to make is who is like that and who isn't? And based on little information people put here, it's not until sometimes all information comes out that you can see the end result, of perhaps what you may offer as a suggestion.

I can see that he was "away", at the time in "Canada" now don't get me wrong, but there is excitement there as it is, another Country, less stressed, relaxed, and who knows she could have flirted her .... of at him and well, once, deed done keep going as when i get back home it's over.

And, i can see he admitted it.

So yes, he may do it again given another chance simular, and he may never do it again...

It's how you feel about it in its totality if you can deal with it, as a ok, man, beast, animal, temparess, but he loves me? He may just grow out of it....

CW