hi im new to this thread as well, i was looking for some awnsers belive it or not im on the net to help me through this heart breaker, i have been with my boyfreind of 8 yrs but dating for about 18 yrs, i love him with all my heart, and would do jus about anything for him, i "had" a best friend who decided her man was not good enough for her and though she could share my man. i really trusted her and thought the world of her as well, there had been many times were them two would go "shopping" so i thought together, or somthing dunb like that. i would have never guessed. but it happend about a year and a half ago, i just got the email tues of last week, some person emailed me to tell me she has been boasting about it, and it got back to me . when i confronted him he denied it until i pretty much told him "this was the time to tell me cause who ever sent me the mesage has proof" he then came clean and told me he had cheated on me not once but several times while i was working.
the scariest thing is i think i knew it, i knew somthing was not right after a while and thats why i stoped hanging with her. but i feel so ****** now! i feel like i was taken for a fool and not only that but violated by the man i love and truseted. i left him then he of corse did the whole "i got caught routine" and begged me to come back that he learned his lesson and how im the only one who could make him happy,, and how he loves me so much hes nothing without me.. now i decided to try and work it out with him becuse i do love him. but its so hard, i keep thinking about her and him together, and what is he doing while im at work things like that. will i get over it or is it worth trying to work out??? any suggestions.