There are so many opinions and views on trust. After trust has been broken how do you let someone earn it back or how do you build back trust with someone you've betrayed. How long does it take to do either? Some people think its an immediate thing, oh well I messed up you can forgive and forget and trust me again, just like that. I have a different view of that. I think it takes along time to rebuild trust once its been broken. Or is it even possible to trust that person again??

I've read where people say that because its your spouse you are expected to forgive that person and trust them again. I've read where no you should never trust that person again. Why does the person who betrays you think its so easy to forgive and forget and automatically trust them again???? Why does the person who betrays you place all the blame on you when they are the ones who committed the act????

When do the ones who've been betrayed once or more than once gain the strength and knowledge to realize they deserve better??? When is it ok to just walk away without having to worry about that other persons feelings? I mean after all they weren't considering your feelings when they did what they did, cause had they been they would have never done it. Why is after the fact the betrayel has been committed are they so sorry and have so many excuses? Where was the sorriness before they did it? Why didn't they think of the consequences before doing what they did??

Sorry I may just as though I'm rambling, but I'd like others peoples views.

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