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Originally Posted by Uneeklyme
Disagree all you want. much of my information is based on medical facts and professional medical/personal experience not personal belief. Who are you to say I am not who I say I am... housewife. You too should know much of the information I gave is medically correct given that you study under a Phd.
Maybe because I was posting on the how to of anal sex. Trying to explain that there are things that could be done to make it pleasurable and not painful while attempting to dispel some myths based again on personal belief.
I placed a question mark after a question. Sue me. Again, you question that I am not who I say I am and again, who do you think you are to do so housewife? (pesky question mark)
Your right. PID (pelvic inflammatory disease) is caused by bacteria being pushed high into the vagina or into the uterus through the cervix. It spreads to the fallopian tubes and causes a nasty infection. PID could result in loss of fertility. However, PID is not solely causes by bacteria transfering to the vagina during anal sex. Yes, this could happen but hopefully people have common sense enough not to go from anal to vaginal without washing first. A condom is a good idea especially if your squicked out by potential mess or dont feel like interupting sex to wash up. Just take the condom off. Most adults know how to dispose of a condom. Also, using a condom is recommended as a precaution against STI or other potential infections. I never said potential for infection wasnt present. Having sex during menstration does not guarentee infection. Any kind of bacteria could potentially cause infection at any time. A PID can be caused by douching which changes the flora in the vagina and invites infection in. The bacteria could come from anywhere right down to perfumes in soap.
For alot of men its interesting and different but not more interesting than vaginal sex. *shrug* A matter of personal opinion I guess.
I never said it was nor did I say use it as something to turn anyone on or make them feel sexy or use it as a sexy thought.
Im sorry you had to go through this due to whatever your cicumstances were. However, these things are not normal after effects of anal sex. Colonoscopies are advised for everyone over 40. They are a great preventative maintainence much like pap smears and pelvic exams but pleasurable they are not. Neither are cystoscopies or laparoscopic proceedures which im sure you had when you had your PID since it's a diagnostic exam for such things. They do suck but they are not solely used because someone had anal sex.
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Id also like to add this . If you ahd read my first post correctly, you will have seen that i stated i DID use a condom for anal sex removing it for vaginal sex . You have said it wont happen the action of anal sex however gently and using lubrication and condom the penis can still |"slip out" or it can just be difficult to get into that area however relaxed you are and with lubrication causing it just to push forward or sort of knock or smear around the entrance of the vagina EVEN when there is no there is no feaces visable on the caondom ie: the condom looks clean as it did when first put on! there is a transfere of bacteria from the bowel as no amount of washing externally assuming a woman did not go through the process of enema and even if she did the bacteria is still there in the bowel or the bacteria goes on the area of skin between the vagina and anal opening removing the condom of course is what most people would do assuming they were very careful about touching the OUTSIDE of it (transferring bacteria onto fingers) and then having vaginal sex the backteria will still be on the outside of the vaginal opening or just inside where it has collected with either lubrication or whatever fluid has been used or the natural vaginal lubrication has helped it enter . Of course six of penis matters here im 5 foot four and petite frame and have some difficulty getting the penis into the vagina if you have a man of 6 ft 4 plus and large built and penis that can be difficult to almost impossible to get that into a very small anal opening thus causing the slipping and wiping over the vaginal area in the two positions bending over and on side with legs drawn up ! so in actual fact it dosent matter if a condom is used as ive just explained it can still happen . Having sex vaginal sex only is not advisable around a period (without a condom ) as risk of infection greater chance of PID . But having vaginal sex and anal sex around a period is not advisable even with a tampon inserted , without of course huge risk and awful mess . Some women prefer to have sex at the time of period (orgasm reduces menstral cramps and some women feel highly aroused at that time others can feel very sick and ill but having sex during mensturation have been warned by experts DO NOT IT as even before menstration thecervix is beinning to open . All men carry a germ behind the foreskin no matter how much washing you do you wont get rid of that that germ is responsible for cases of cervical cancer and pre cancerous cells . The incidences of cervical cancer are very very low in Israel due to male curcumcision , not what we were discussing but i thought id add that . I am not Jewish i am Catholic but if i have a son , i have chosen to have my son curcumcised .