It's like the story Ellie shared. She talked about two men she had dated, liked, and considered marrying, but finally had decided on James. She told her friend, "When I was with Michael, I thought he was the most wonderful person in the world." Her friend said, "I'm confused. If Michael was so wonderful, why didn't you choose him? Why did you choose James?" "Because," Ellie said, "When I was with James, he made me feel like I was the most wonderful person in the world."[/quote]


Miss Understood,,I want to say thank you and that I love this that you posted. I had to read it twice but I got the meaning behind it. AMAZING and very very true.

I have read your threads as well and feel your pain. I also see that you are coming out of the dark side and are becoming a stronger person. Keep going cause you are doing AWESOME!!!

My affair with a married man didn't end well either, but it wasn't because he wanted the wife. It was because he wanted the wife, me and other women as well. But I know how you feel. It is painful and it can feel like all hope is gone. BUT we are showing them other wise, aren't we darlin??

I think we are all in control of our own destinies...so now we move forward and control what we want to happen. Not let others control what they think we need or want but what we truly need and want.

Thank you for sharing with me, for it to has helped me. You are a strong person and only getting stronger everyday..and a wonderful as well.