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Originally Posted by Miss Understood
My new Life Goal... try to become the "Best Version of ME!" And not vary from that for acceptance. Any input on that?
When in a relationship I need to know ahead of time who I am, what my boundaries are, and if that person fits me and supports who I am and the best version of me I want to be.I suspect it will mean sitting down and really having a lot of quite time in my values all over again.
Hey that reminds me of that author about the Dream Giver that said if you find yourself feeling "stuck" always reanalyze your priorities and values and check back to see if your actually living them. Also another one that said if you want to know someone's priorities... just look at their Daytimer, their thought life, their checkbook, and their actions, what they watch on TV, and who they surround themselves with.
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I agree with you 100% and then some. I need to do the same thing. I have realized I have adjusted who I am to make others happy and now its time for me to just be me.
A person should love you, like you for who you are not who they expect or want you to be. No one should ever settle for less.
Way to go Miss Understood!!! I couldn't have said it any better myself.
