i have no clue as to whether the things you suspect are truth or lies. no idea at all. BUT if you are in relationship, and you're not generally suspicious and unbalanced, if you feel really really insecure, it is usually for a reason. Because it is deserved! If your relationship is working well, and there is a good balance you would just laugh off any other suggestions. If you genuinely feel concerned and seriously insecure, there is generally a reason behind it. xxx