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Originally Posted by lexi
Unless you are also Housewife I was never writing to you. I never went out of my way to talk down to you so don't do it to me. Wiser has an s in it not a z and my ex boyfriend's penis isn't up for discussion.
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This is a womens forum, and it is supposed to be here amongst other things to share advice and HELP each other on issues . You were posting as a young girl saying that its fine nothing wrong with it and calling that lady nutcase and crazy ...for NOT having anal sex perhaps she was upset and thats why she put the things she did . Nobody knows her life or experiences . If you feel she is pushing the religious aspect, you still dont need to call her nut case . Aside from religion , she is very sensible because out of ALL the posts she has significantly reduced her chances of having an infection by choosing NOT to have anal sex ....what you dont seem to realize in your youth lexi is ...you have plenty of time to date ...if you are giving this message out that anal sex is great to a guy and isnt it fun ect ect ...or making little fun jokes about it on dates there could be a time whe you get to sleep with that guy for the first time and you are face down (were you have NO control) and that guy could violate you in a brutal way ..ignoring your pleas of stop its hurting ...because of that message you are sending out !! yes it could happen even if you didnt talk about anal with a new boyfriend BUT you dont realize what your doing ...most girls dont until something happens to them ...its like teasing and flirting SOME guys dont realizr its harmless others will try to overpower you and say you got what you deserved - thats wrong but it is the way of the world . So listen to someone older with much more experience than you . As i said before im single 40 but ive have had many dates and many differnt experiences with guys ... It is VERY TRUE about the PID issue and if you are interested in having a baby if that is what you want YOU need to learn as a woman how to protect and look after your reproductive organs and your body ...because believe me if anything happens or you ed up with problems - you will be crying about that for the rest of your life . Use your common sense and look up some of the things ive talked about on the net ...plus as a young girl DO YOU REALLY WANT to be experiencing some of the possible problems leakages , syringes , dealing soreness that can happen or smells . Of course its up to the woman at the end of the day but a lot of time this is a thing that MEN are interested in . I dont see annything wrong with two men having anal but its a total different kettle of fish a man and a woman and especially a single woman (NOT being able to trust and dating guys you dont know what your dealing with ...and have the courage NOT to let yourself get influenced by others . MOST women dont have anal sex and the ones that do do it BECAUSE the man (most of the time ) has expressed his interest in it . I personally and ive done it but i spend that much time making myself look elegant and attractive my bedroom and bed linens ect bathing and putting perfume on WHY would i want to be with a guy and be risking messing around in the anus and all the problems that cmes with it . I wouldnt be expecting a second date ! and i certainly wouldnt ruin some beautiful bedlinen or RISK my fertility or anal leakages . Its not dangerous for men but it is for woman so think about that and why i have given the advice unless you dont care about having children