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Old 04-27-2008, 05:25 AM   #5
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Originally Posted by Uneeklyme View Post
I think women are absolutely beautiful and seductive and romantic and stimulating.

I have had a couple of encounters with women and although alot of fun and enticing, I have come to the conclusion that I prefer men.

Having said that... By actual definition this makes me bisexual as I have engaged in sex with a women and sex with a man. I don't feel an attraction for women though. I am glad I had the experiences and as was said, never say never but I have had many opportunities since then to give it a go again and have passed. I just physically prefer men.

My oldest son was gay. (My experiences happened long before he ever "came out" and there is no connection) and I still have many gay and bisexual friends from support groups and whatnot. They tend to use the term bisexual to "define" me even though I don't feel the same sex love so to speak.

**shrug** I guess its what you make of it.
That's " open mindedness again i believe... I worked 17 years in restaurants and employed gay men, love them. One is 75 and still sends me "Merry Xmas" faxes every year and touches base, yet he is married...

I have no problem at all with the sexuality of anyone.

Lets be a bit more open:- I'm honest but i don't have to share, that's my priogrative i believe however:-

I to have been with my man ( 4 years) still today, 20 years later he wished i had married him and his ex-girlfriend (7 yrs) and me a duel fight? Till the end? Back then. It was quite funny, we both dressed up, to look good. She did shocked the out of me wasn't expecting that, i didn't, well not bi, said that, and we all did the deed her first i believe as i wanted to watch. Naughty i know, or was that that i wanted to beat her in the sound department. No, not at all i do not know how to be jealous don't know why, never has been a part of me.

Needless to say, he never strayed, loved me, ( even now ) to the end of the earth i believe our longest sex was " 4 hours?", non stop! And, she looked at me differently from then onwards, never fought with me for him again..

They had broken up by the way...

Just she was trying to get him back.

That was..... one of an adventure .... definately NEVER REGRETED..

So now am i Bi?

I still think not.

But now i can't recall if i kissed her or her back? Probably 23 years is well a long time ago...

Since then as said, i've had the heated Property Manager after smoking a joint and me gone on alcohol and husband in the other room snooring his .........of, and i went whoa..............no way.

So, i say not..

Just an adventurous woman and why the not?

CW

It was quite an experience, i felt un-comfortable,
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