how do i talk to my boyfriend about his problem keeping an erection without hurting his feelings? we just simply do not discuss it and i can't say that im not happy with our sex life because he does everything to make sure i enjoy it, but i worry that he gets no pleasure out of it because he has trouble keeping an erection during intercourse probably 60% of the time. i love him very much and don't want to hurt his feelings in any way... all suggestions would be welcome! especially something that didn't involve viagra! thanks!