Ok, perhaps that was a little insensitive.

But what I mean to say is, that you need to focus your energy on the changes you wish to see in your life, instead of waiting for them to happen. Don't accept fate and wallow in pity... Be proactive about fixing things - if a higher power exists, you STILL have to use your OWN power, be your own guardian angel.

Don't have friends? Make some. Poor? Get a job. Etc etc.

Do something completely crazy - life is an adventure. Get a plane ticket to India and see what happens. There's so much out there in the world, don't admit defeat and shut yourself off from it, instead revel in this marvelous world and let it be your strength.