It makes me feel a little better to know all the sleeping could just be normal. In between sleeping she's pretty much fussy except for 1 or 2 15 minute breaks of happy playing. My son was never like this, he was happy all the time. I know kids are different and some aren't as good as my son was but I hate seeing her upset all the time and nothing helps. She acts like she wants picked up so I do but in less than 5 minutes she acts like she wants down, so I put her down and she cries. Nothing makes her happy, it's like she doesn't know what she wants. The way she acts is the way most kids act when they get overtired but I don't see how she can be. The last time she saw the doctor was when her iron was low so we figured that was the reason for all the sleep. She goes back in a month and I'll ask about it since that isn't why she's so tired. Some people have said girls are just fussy but I just worry that something else could be wrong.