No, tons of guys do *not* go through this. You'd be surprised how many guys have trouble because their women won't even give them oral, let alone threesomes.

It really sounds like he's messing with your head, in a big way. Especially the plastic surgery part. As far as the internet thing, once that stuff is out there, it's out there forever. Nothing is more personal than deciding to have your "business" out there for millions of people to download, including perhaps people in your own family or community. Give that some thought.

There's nothing wrong with experimenting and pushing the limits into things that may be excessive on occasion, but at some point he has to accept you for who you are, since that's kind of the definition of what a relationship is. Set boundaries with this guy.

Good luck.