I would not nor have never checked on my husband's books or in his wallet. He did have a cellphone but never checked there either. The woman that was waiting at the motel for him was not a stranger to conversation. He had mentioned her before but the red flag just did not go off. One night when he called me and was late for his call and told me he had been talking to her, the flag went higher. Unfortunately not high enough to expect what I was to find out last year. I trusted OK but it was the woman that I had to worry about.

What this all proves is how deep our trust is for each other. The affair never happened and neither of us has ever doubted each other. But I still would love to wring her neck.....And when I am done with her I would go and find that nurse of years back who wanted him to go out for drinks after class........She I would kick her in the shins.....500 times.......Take care, Caroline