Did you mean to say "none in joint custody" or was that a slip-up? Seriously?
God, I wish that my sister and I had been taken away from our mother. We could have led much happier, more productive lives. But instead we were victims of a system that refuses to protect the children of the mentally ill as long as that mentally ill parent stays married, or stays quiet. I'm sorry for your loss and hope that you get your children back as soon as possible, but I am admittedly bitter from the lack of protection I was given as a child.
I'm not sure that I agree with you, Whilhelm, on the nature of rape changing because of pornography. You'll have to back that one up. Of course, I wonder how the conclusion was made that rape wasn't about sex. Did they ask the rapists?