Memories........ is what i see.

23 Years married, a loving relationship but probably a bit "stale", as obviously, not the honeymoon stage as it was years and years ago.

Memories.... she is at a funeral, he reminisces, talks to her, flirtation comes into it, can't help himself, nor her, he wants some form of "attention" and falls for the must communicate, need a bit of fun....

So, he does.

I can't determine the photo of her and him together that the daughter sent through, " when they were together, what 25 years ago, or during the past 20?".

Seems he doesn't want to stop communication though and is definitely going behind your back after telling you his woes, then wait until i get a new email address, or password, i sent a card....

He's lusting and busted.

I'd be sitting down with a cup of coffee and review your past few years together by yourself... Is it friendship? with a bond? Is it still very intimate, or just sex every now and then? Are you happy? Still in love?

Want to fight ? Or give in?

Then i would be sitting down with him and saying you know I've reviewed a few things, if it is me who you love let's do something about it, and get close again, intimate, sexy and you cook a meal once a week, light me some candles, let's get a bit cheeky whilst we are at it shall we?

You'll soon find out if he's 24/7 your way and backs of her, or just does those little things for you "guilt" and can't get it together therefore, is still lusting for her...

Sometimes, it's all about the game..... if you know what i mean.

You deserve to know, just checking up, not wanting to look at him let alone anything else, will push it in the other direction.

Play a game, use psychology and get him real good, then keep him, or get him real good and unfortnately, see that he's straying and then it's your choice from there, as your important to.

CW