If I am reading you right this would put your husband and you probably in your 50's or near it....This could be a man looking for lost youth...She would probably be of the same age group which again could be two people looking for a part of life that is rapidly disappearing on them and that they are trying to cling to to make them eternally young....This is so often a problem in the male as he ages......To accept the inevitable, being age, is to some men a tragedy....It is easier to try to escape to that place in time where age does not count but memories do....

Seeing that you both are past the age of spooning, maybe a serious talk of both yesterday, today and all your tomorrow's would help....Sometimes looking into the face of time and what could possibly be and the hurt it can do and thinking it through can make two people closer than they have ever been......TC, C