Thanks for the advice...

Yes she did end up going on Sun!! oh and get this turns out that her and her boyfriend are going to be getting engaged now too... how ironic. But as for my wedding next year there will be no way at all I can have her in my wedding party, if we can't even get along planning Mother's day how are we going to get along planning my wedding. trust me it wouldn't work plus my sister and my other bridesmaid do not get along with her at all either.

Cris is very good and does stick up for me but there are times that I feel so horrible putting him in the middle of the petty BS with her but I just can't stand her at all. It just makes me more mad too that her father always sticks up for her as well it is so annoying. She can do no wrong and everything that cris does is wrong. its like a no win situation with them.. They are so self absorbed its bad.. but here I go ranting and raving again.