Ok I know that this a topic that always comes up so I searched but couldn't find any threads up to date. I am a newlywed it has been 3mths now, about 8 months ago I found out that by husband was watching porn on the computer like everyday. So I said something to him about it and of course he made like it wasnt him. He tried to put it off on my nephews, that has their own computer at home. So I blew it off then he started deleting the history after he used the computer. So I said something else to him about it one day when I knew it was him for sure, and he tried to down play it like it was nothing. As time when on I would always check the history to see if there was any porn, and what do you know just about everytime I would check there would always be some there. I tried explaining to him how it make me feel but we always end up fussing and never really talk it out. So one night while laying in bed I told him that I had to get somethings off my chest and I just wanted him to listen, and I told him just how I felt, and at that time we werent married and he promised me that he would stop and he said that he never looked at it the way I explained. I told him that I understand that he had been watching it before we met and all the time when he was in Iraq, but somethings have to come to an end. So it stopped for about a week or two but then he went right back at it. Now we are married and I know that he is still looking at it and it is driving me CRAZY!!!!! I dont know what to do, there are some nights that he dont even touch me but as soon as he get up before work he is on the computer doing what.....LOOKING AT PORN....when he comes home from work he get himself something to drink and go straight to the computer and before he gets off he has looked at porn. It just tick me off to know that he is still watching it after he promised he wouldnt. I sent him an email telling him that I was done trying to explain myself to him and that I felt like him watching porn was going to cause a problem in our marriage and that I wasnt going to say nothing else to him about it. And how about he said nothing to me about the email and is still watching porn EVERYDAY & NIGHT!!!! I feel like it would be different if he tried to watch it with me but he hides it and lie to me about even watching it. I really dont know what to do, I dont have anyone that I can talk to about it because I feel really shame. So please can someone help me understand!!! Am I wrong or right for feeling this way, or did I need to just get over myself....I dont know I am at a lost. Any advice is better than none!!!!