Well, it certainly is a highly discussed topic so i am sure you'll receive many replies.

All i want to say is, if you feel it would be different if you watched it together then:-

Go for shock tactic. Go buy a Video, bring it home put it on when he's expecting your watching a movie together and watch it and see if your included or can be included in it, how you both feel watching it.


I do feel if people do things before their married and "asked not to when", that's your priogrative to do so, but if it was there before, it's obvious that it's going to be there after.. Whilst disrespectful in one way, as he promised, it's obviously something he can't and doesn't want to change about his life before you.

When it affects your sex life ( 3 months married ) then it's an issue for sure.

Have you asked him what it is he likes about watching them?

CW