How funny when they like to put the blame on us hey!~ lol... regarding Anal,three different reasons..
I never see a problem with "me time", but daily.. Well if your together 3 times a week, that's not too bad....
I think shock him still, put one on and watch it... Let him walk in and see you doing it...
Careful though, if it gets out of hand and addictive and he's not wanting to spend anytime with you, you have a serious problem.
CW