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Originally Posted by anonymouswhitefemale
You probably won't get many replies, because this conversation has been had ad nauseum. It's all been covered, read through past threads (use the search feature, it doesn't matter if it's not that recent, the topic is still the same). Then find someone who says what you want to hear and then agree with them.
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I don't think anyone has to agree with her specifically to agree that there is a problem here. Anytime a guy prefers porn to his girl/actual sex there is a problem - whether it be an addiction problem, whether it be an attraction problem, whether it be a boredom problem. There is a problem of some sort.
My suggestion, sit down have a heart to heart with him. Tell him how you feel, ask him how he feels. Try to come up with a compromise that both of you are agreeable to, that way neither one of you has to be the one to "give in" so to speak and become bitter.
But yes there are multiple threads on this issue. You can search and read the many thoughts/problems others have had.