I have been in a relationship for 7 yrs with a man that at one point and time in my life i loved with all my heart. I have raised his 3 children that he has full custody off. But for the past year I have been very unhappy in the relationship but after so many years how do u live? I don't want to hurt the children specially but i am no longer happy i am depress , sad and i have meet someone else. I have meet a very special man that does not know the truth about my realtionship. This man makes me happy in a way i have never know before and i feel that i deserver happiness. That i also deserver the opportunity to be able to have my own children to have a family that is mine. It is hard raising children that are not yours we always argue about everything eventhough i have raise them for so many years i don't have a saying. It is hard but i want out and i don't know i am afraid.

Please I need advice i need help please