We occasionally indulge. I cramp horribly and the orgasms really help with that. Sometimes we just have sex in the shower and sometimes we just throw a towel down. It all depends on what we are comfortable with at the time. I personally am not comfortable with oral sex during my period and will not let him do it. I have tried it tho so I know for a fact that its not something I can get over. Thats just me tho. I give him oral during my period as an alternative and also, depending on which day of the week, anal. Sometimes we will use toys for me and a blow job or hand job for him. However it works out. There are certain times during the week when I flow heavily and its a bit to much for either of us to take. That "squishy" overwet feeling just kinda kills the mood for me. Also, we shower before and after but sometimes the smell of blood is overwhelming for me. He doesnt mind. Its all in what your comfortable with. Sometimes he will suggest sex and I just remind him that aunt flo and uncle tom are visiting. It gives him the choice. Says he doesnt mind looking like a home vasectomy victim, it washes off.

Couple of points. NEVER have sex (penetration) with a tampon inserted. YES, you can lose them things in there. We have women come through the office about every six months or so that this has happened to. It can cause infections and damage to the cervix.

Make sure you and your partner use the upmost care with hygene. The cervix is slightly open during menstration. The potential for infection is increased a bit. It is safe to have sex on your period, just take some precautions if possible. Condoms are great during a period.

Also, lube. Its a common thought that blood is lubricating. Not so, it actually is a bit drying and sticky. Women are more sensitive during this time and if there is just enough blood but not to much, it may be more irritating that helpful. Dont assume that just because there is more liquid there is more lube.