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Originally Posted by blueyed21
Okay about 8 months ago I had a miscarriage. Now me and my fiance want a baby so bad. But we also would like to get married. Should I wait and get married first? I guess that since I miscarried I want a baby now more than ever but I don't know if I can wait that long to get married first eventhough it sounds like the right thing to do. What do ya'll think?
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Speaking as a mother, raising a child is very involved and if you can, it would be better if you get married first. That way you can completely share in the duties and decrease burnout. You get the cutesy stuff with a child, but there's a lot more to it than that.