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Originally Posted by talk time
My guy works away and has a lap top full of porn to get him by, so to speak lol. I suspect he also watches it somnetimes when he is at home and I'm at work but it doesn't bother me. We have an amazing sex life and I know he adores me.
I think your issue is not so much about the porn, although i can see it upsets you. I think the real issue is that he doesn't respect your feelings and is putting his needs far further up on the priority list.
Talk to him about it in those terms, not about his porn but your feelings. and you can't help the way you feel. He may be getting a kick out of not just the porn but also that it is making you so jealous. who knows just a thought.
Remember though that the porn is about him, it doesn't meen you are lacking in any way.
Good luck with it all. tt
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Thanks, I never looked at it that way, so the next time it comes up I will be sure to direct the convo in that direction. I feel that I am doing good well lately its not bothering me as much because I avoid even talking about to him, I try not to even think about it.